Let’s Be Real Local is a space for Indonesians who:

• Wants deeper friendships instead of small talk

• Is looking for a supportive community

• Enjoys meaningful conversations and self-reflection

• Wants to learn from other people's stories

• Is curious to connect in a smaller, more intimate group

Each meetup explores a different topic through guided conversations, reflection prompts, and sharing circles.

🌱 This Month's Topic:

Dreams, Goals & Growing Up in an Indonesian/Asian Household

• What did you dream of becoming as a child?

• How did your upbringing shape the person you are today?

• Which family values still help you, and which ones are you trying to unlearn?

• What does success actually mean to you?

• What's stopping you from pursuing the life you really want?

There are no right answers.

Just honest conversations, different perspectives, and a chance to realize you're probably not as alone as you think.

🫶 What You Can Expect

• Small group sharing

• Meeting other locals with similar fears and goals

• A safe way to practice speaking and connecting

• Real conversations without pressure to perform

• Playful + grounded atmosphere

⚠️ Community Agreements

1. Be fucking real.

No pretending. No performing. No trying to look cool.

2. This is a safe & brave space.

Share only what feels right for you.
We practice respect, care, and consent.

3. “I” statements only.

Speak from your own experience.
Avoid generalizing or speaking for others.

4. Solicited advice only.

Please don’t fix, coach, or save people unless they ask for it.

🚫 This Space Is NOT For

• judgmental behavior

• creepy intentions

• ego-driven networking

• performative spirituality

• disrespectful flirting

• people unwilling to listen and reflect

⚠️ If you violate the community agreements, you will be warned once. Continued behavior will result in being asked to leave the space.

Format

• Small group sharing (maximum 6 people total)

• Guided conversation facilitated by Sandra

• Each person gets around 10 minutes as the main speaker

• Other participants listen, support, and ask curious questions

👋 About the Host — Sandra

Sandra helped grow Let’s Be Real from a small community of less than 100 people into a multicultural community of more than 600 people today.

Throughout her childhood, teenage years, and young adulthood, she moved countries and cities many times — rebuilding friendships and starting over again and again.

For a long time, she struggled with people pleasing, fear, boundaries, and belonging.

When she found Let’s Be Real in Bali, she felt deeply loved, accepted, and supported. The community became a huge part of her healing, self-discovery, communication skills, and personal growth. Through LBR, she learned non-violent communication, met inspiring people, and experienced what authentic connection could actually feel like.

Now she wants to create a space where other Indonesians can experience that too:

a place to relate, connect, grow, and realize they’re not alone.

Important Reminder

If you cannot attend, please leave the meetup early so someone else can join the space.

(There is a minimum spend policy of 75K to support the venue, so come hungry!)

See more on IG @LetsBeRealCommunity

🚨 Important Notes:

We start 11AM SHARP - Come 15 mins early.

Please remove yourself if you can't attend to give space for others.

🤔 Questions?

Message us on Instagram:

@LetsBeRealCommunity